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Love(ing) a (Broken) Woman

i am gone here but not there but not in out out in floating, gone again i am dissociation i am pelt of shame a foreign heart i am come apart i am And then hi...

Relationships

The Art of Surrender and the Getting of Intimacy

It’s not a coincidence that I broke free when I did: found my partner when I did; took that first terrified, courageous breath; tentatively blew the dust fro...

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Holding Space

Isn’t it time men held the space? If my 6 year old daughter can do it, dudes can too I’ve been told many times I’m great at holding the space. It’s an evocat...

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Will the real men please stand up?

I heard a journalist ask 26-year-old, Australian of the Year, Grace Tame recently - “how do we sidestep shame?”. They were talking about the shame of childho...